I watched as she walked by, the expression on her face decipherable, given with such intent and vigor, in fact, that it could have been easily interpreted from the vantage point of the Mexican restaurant on the other side of town. There was absolutely no mistaking the look the woman was was giving my husband as she sauntered by our table while we sat waiting for our dinner; the one cheerily inhabited by the two of us, another couple, their small child, and our daughter.
The look she shot Hubby said, quite clearly, and in no uncertain terms ~ Fuck me.
I was surprised. Taken aback. As were our friends, who, too, witnessed the seductive, non-verbal invitation she delivered to my husband. Even Hubby, whose face did not report similarly, was startled. Her stare was so penetrating, so engaging, that it was difficult not to meet her gaze as she eye fucked my husband. I followed her with my own eyes as she passed us, an expression forming on my face that might have conveyed anger or indignation… or worse – jealousy. But what I felt was different. What I felt was not a sense of ownership, not, This is MY husband, how dare you fuck him with your eyes in front of me; but more of an assertion of boundary violation. It was a clear imposition upon an intimate and companionable moment with my friends and my family.
There is an appropriate time and there are suitable places for overtly salacious body-language that says Motherfuck, you’re hot, I’d like to suck your cock right the fuck here. But that appropriate time and place is not when their (apparent) partner is sitting next to the intended receiver of that announcement as they, together, nosh on chips and queso with the kids.
But I suppose that some people just either don’t know any better, they don’t care, or their faces all to easily betray their lustful desires.
And while, ultimately, it’s really not a big deal, I find it interesting because it clearly illustrates an inherent need that people have for sexual contact of all sorts, even if this connection amounts to nothing more than a brief exchange of eye contact between two people (and handful of amused witnesses.)
Besides, it gave all the adults at the table a good, long, hearty laugh.
And as Hubby said, it was, after all… A really good Fuck Me look.
Certainly that is a bit rude in company, but I wouldn’t chastise her too harshly. Not so much that she didn’t know better than to do that then and there, but children certainly wouldn’t notice, and a lot of people are often oblivious, and it might have not been a voluntary action. Fuck, my parents are flirted with, all the time, with me standing right there, obviously their daughter. SOMETIMES BY PEOPLE CLOSE TO MY OWN AGE. And I’m 19. Young children would never see it, and I am more likely to notice than my parents are (especially not my father), and it’s pretty much harmless. Even with people who are not in open relationships.
Well…. you left out the major conclusion? Did he get her number and was she hot!! C’mon, all of this jealousy and “appropriate” boundaries aside, will we be hearing more about her in the future?
I for one am clapping my hands and cheering for him. He should enjoy a good eye fucking as often as possible. Who knows, it might lead to something more.
I have been on both ends of “the look” and honestly….on the giving side, I don’t think I framed it by circumstance. I sort of react instinctively first, and think later. xx
I wasn’t chastising her at all. It really was funny, and the circumstances (with our own family and another family) really did render the situation inappropriate, but, like I said, it just illustrates a need we have for sexual contact of any sort. And I just felt like this blip of an experience (the whole thing lasted 5 seconds) was a good story, and worth mentioning.
No, Dewdrop, Hubby did NOT get her number. Not sure if you missed the part about our daughter being with us
But, yeah, talk about inappropriate. I am sure she would have been even more confused! (and yes, she’s definitely hot)
xo~Sadie
For the record, I welcome that sort of eye fucking anytime. Whether I do something about it is where boundaries get crossed or not. And yeah, she is hot but I think the real moral of the story is that it’s important to be attractive. That’s the answer, right? ; )
Love you, baby.
On the other side of the coin, how many times have you SENT a look like that to someone and had us miss it entirely? We guys are not terribly observant, you know. Much of the time you practically have to take off your clothes and stand nude in front of us before we get the message that you’re interested.
– PB